Millions of children across America face abuse every day. Alcoholic parents, out of control teachers or a coach who abuses children as a way of life, this creates victims for life and robs children of their innocence.
Some perpetrators are " private ", The impose their conduct on their own family members. They take away free choice and decisions of children and spend a long time " grooming " and mentally securing their victims. They prey in the shadows; a locked office, a bedroom in the dark of night or in the other innocent and most private of places of a child's world. They develop a secret language, cues that signal abusive conduct. These abusers can impose years of abuse, and never be caught. They feel no shame or remorse and their victims have difficulty in their life time sexual and intimate relationships.
Other " public" abusers are more overt, yet less obvious. These are " skilled " abusers. They " hunt" for victims , traumatize them , abuse them , and move on , causing the victim to be confused and to self blame , resulting in a lifetime of insecurity. The victims of " public " abusers may have crossed paths with the wrong coach, or person trusted by the family, or even a boss, teacher or co- worker. Someone they will never see again when the abuse stops, but where memories of the abuser will haunt them for a lifetime.
Perhaps the worst abuser of all is the Doomsday Abuser. These individuals impose sexual, mental and financial abuse on children trapped in family law cases. Doomsday Abusers act under the color of law , and cast their net in a place where they appear to provide safe harbor, but where they systematically abuse children for profit. These abusers take shape in the form of a professional, or qualified person , legally sanctioned to work with children, and allowed too much latitude and little oversight.
Doomsday Abusers are the focus of this blog. We root them out, with the help of "Anonymous". We expose their emails, their private conversations, and their indiscretions.
We embarrass them, as they embarrassed our children. We shame them as they shame our children. and we worry them , as they caused our children to worry. We disconnect them from others who supported their conduct by proxy.
We blow our whistles hard.
If these abusers are taken into the back alley and beaten, we turn our backs, as they turned their backs on our children. If they are defamed on these pages, we leave the graffiti . If they are embarrassed in front of their neighbors, colleges, friends of family members , we say welcome to the world you created for our children, for profit.
Doomsday abusers lurking in our family courts better worry. We will use violence, civil disobedience, and whatever tactics are needed .
We will validate every child who comes forward, now or in the future. We will let children know they are not alone and it is not their fault.
It is #notyourfault